Stinkies

Happy Sunday!
This last week Lisa Lickel was here and she gave away two books. The winner of Healing Grace is Linda, and Joanne has won The Gold Standard. Congratulations, ladies! Coming up on Tuesday and Wednesday is Trish Perry and she has a copy of her new release for us, too.

Over at Adding Zest there's a silly poll that really does have a purpose--but we'll get to the purpose later on. Be sure to join us and to cast your votes!

And now, here's a thought for today...

There's an area we go through on our way to church that stinks. Always. Regardless of the temperature and weather conditions. It always smells of mildew.

What would make a pasture perpetually smell mildewy? There's an old stand of trees at the edge of the pasture and the remains of an old barn can be seen—just barely. The way the trees are arranged, there could have been a house in there too, years and years ago, but if there was, it's all rotted into the weeds. All that's left of the small farm is a pile of debris. Rotting, smelly debris.

It makes me stop and think about my life. Do I have areas that perpetually stink? If I do, I can tell you right where the stench comes from. Sin. Buried sin. Sin that I hoped would rot away into nothingness so it would be invisible. But sin doesn't do that. It stinks even as it hides.

I don't want that in my life! I don't want to have to smell it and I don't want people around me wondering what the yucky smell is. Not only that, but when my life is over I don't want a stench to linger after I'm gone. You know what I'm talking about—the kind of life that when people hear a person's name they think, 'Eeeeeew' or they're filled with bad memories.

I think I'll do some sniffing around in my life, looking for smelly sin that needs to be confessed and gotten rid of. But before I do that, I'm going to spend some time asking God for a sensitive wiffer so I can smell the sin better.

Dunkin' Cookies


I'm so glad you could join us for Fiction Friday, whether you're posting fiction or reading--or both. Be sure to join us at Karlene's blog, Heart and Soul for links to more fun fiction.

And don't forget that this week Lisa Lickel is in the author spotlight (Tuesday) and there's an interview with her, too (Wednesday). She's also giving away TWO books, and boy do they sound good! Leave a comment on one of her posts to be entered in the book drawings.

Oh! Heidi posted on Adding Zest today, too! ;-)
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Dunkin' Cookies
Willa looked out her kitchen window and saw the new neighbor boy still slouched in a lawn chair. That's it, Lord. He's been there for half an hour. I'm going over. She pulled down a plate and piled fresh cookies on it. After setting it on a tray with a carton of milk and two glasses, she went outside.

“Jason, come give me a hand, honey. Grab this little table and stick it between the chairs so we can enjoy these cookies.”

Jason's bare feet scuffed the grass, but he moved the table then stood back.

Willa held the plate out to him. “I love baking, but with just me and Howard it's just not as fun. Think you could help me out?”

He smiled at her and reached for a cookie, waiting politely while she poured them some milk. She dunked her cookie in her milk and took a big bite. “Mmmmmm. I don't know about you, but I love cookies an' milk.”

A big grin lit Jason's face as he followed her example.

“Not too shabby, huh?” Willa said with her mouth full.

This time Jason giggled.

Willa made her eyes wide. “What? Do I have crumbs on my chin?”

He giggled again. “I thought my Nana was the only old lady who dunked her cookies in milk and talked with her mouth full.” Jason reached for another cookie, but his hand stopped midair.

Willa smiled and nodded to the plate. “Help yourself, because if you don't, I'll eat more than you do.” She took another big bite of cookie. “So, your nana likes cookies an' milk, too?”

Jason sighed. “Yeah. But she can't come this summer.”

“That's too bad. I bet she really misses you.” Willa looked around their adjoining yards and sighed. “I miss my grandkids since they moved.” She looked at him. “We're quite a pair aren't we? I'm a granma, missing my grandkids, and you're a grandkid missing your nana. We ought'a just adopt each other.”

Jason grinned. “Yeah, we ought'a.” He took a drink of milk and eyed the cookie plate. “Does that mean I could have another cookie? These are the best chocolate chip cookies I've ever had.”

Willa laughed. “Why thank you! You can have as many as you like.” Lord, please don't let me come on too strong and scare him away. “Have you ever been to Vacation Bible School, Jason?”

Jason's eyes sparkled. “Yeah! Nana use'ta bring me every summer. It was great.” The sparkles quickly faded. “Mom's too busy, though.”

“Would you like to come with me next week?” Willa asked. “I asked your mom this morning and she said it's ok.” Please Lord, let him come with me.

“Really? You're going?”

“Yup. I go every year and I'd love for you to go with me.” Willa passed the cookie plate. “You want the last one?”

Jason took the cookie, his eyes never leaving Willa's. “Next week?”

“Yup. All week.” Willa smiled.

“Will they teach me about Jesus?” Jason asked, hope filling his eyes.

Willa's heart squeezed. “Yes, they will. Do you know Jesus?”

“I wanted ta ask Him inta my heart last year, but I didn't get to 'cuz the the teacher didn't ask if anyone wanted to on the last day.” Jason buried his toes in the grass.

“Honey, asking Jesus into your heart is something you can do anywhere.” Lord, please save him.

“Really? Do you know Jesus, Willa?”

“Yes, sweetie, I do, and I know He loves you. Did you know He died on the cross for your sins?”

“That's what the teacher said. An' she said that we'd go to hell because we're sinners. Willa, I don' wanna go ta hell. I wanna be with Jesus.” Jason's fingers clenched, squishing his forgotten cookie.

“Jesus will forgive your sins if you ask Him to, Jason. He'll live in your life and make you His special child. You just need to ask Him.” Please, Lord...

“How do I ask Him?”

“By praying.”

“Can I pray now?”

“Yes, you can,” Willa said, her eyes filling with tears.

Jason squeezed his eyes shut. “Jesus would You forgive my sins and live in my life, please? I wanna go ta heaven an' be with You. Amen.”

Jason looked at Willa, his eyes sparkling. “I'm His special child now, aren't I?”

Willa hugged him. “Yup. You're oh-so special, honey! To Jesus and to me.”
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Vacation Bible School is a summer highlight for many children--and with good reason! It's fun and it can be life changing for them. I was saved as a result of VBS, back when we lived on the coast of Maine. I'm so thankful! I'm praying that VBS will make a difference to some children this year.

Don't forget the book giveaways!
Next week Trish Perry will be here at Patterings, be sure to join us!

Trusting...

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Today is my day to post At the Well, and this month I got to post on marriage. Now, normally I've written on the home, but God, in His great wisdom and attention to details, had Chelsey assign me to the 'To have and to hold' department. I'm telling you, it was a God thing! I was still pulling a Jonah and running from His call to me about starting an Adding Zest series (never mind about a whole Adding Zest site!!) and as I wrote Trusting Enough? I kept feeling God's knock and thinking about how much I was enjoying writing about marriage.

Our God is incredible!

I'd love to have you join me At the Well where I share a trick I learned from Balaam's donkey--one that saved my marriage a lot of grief. :-)

with Lisa Lickel

Today is a double header--If you scroll down you'll find my first Adding Zest post--but you could also go over to Adding Zest and read it there and get in on the conversation. :)

Lisa has offered to giveaway not just her new release Healing Grace, but also her debut novel, The Gold Standard. So leave a comment (and your email addy to make it easier for me to track you down!!) to be entered into the book drawings. As always, the drawings will be open until Saturday evening and the winnerS will be posted on Sunday. :)

Lisa, thanks so much for being here this week! Tell us a little about yourself.
I live and write in beautiful southeast Wisconsin – not far from Lake Michigan, where I grew up biking down to the lakeshore and sitting on the pier, or visiting the lighthouse I could hear on foggy nights from my bedroom. I enjoy traveling, reading, watching the birds, hand quilting, visiting with family and friends, radio theater, writing, and picking up another book. Oh, and history – anything historical makes me close my eyes and breathe in motes from the past. I work with many historical societies. I live in a hundred and fifty-year-old house built by a Great Lakes ship captain. I love Coffee. Cheesecake. Kringle. Bread. Venison on the grill. I teach Sunday School and enjoy ladies Bible Study at church.

Was there something that sparked your idea for Healing Grace?
Yes. While I was waiting for the results of the first “First Novel” contest from the Christian Writer’s Guild (I made the top ten) I finished the apprentice course. Some scenes for Grace were part of the last lessons, which eventually morphed into the story. My brother developed an infection in his nervous system that winter, and while I was researching his symptoms in order to try and understand what was going on, I thought about the whole healing process. What would the gifts of the holy spirit look like in today’s world? I have an idea for a whole series of novels based on the home community that I developed for Grace. Maybe someday….

What is your most difficult writing obstacle, and how do you overcome it?
This is a terrible problem to have, but once the idea for a plot is fixed firmly in my head, characters are a little bit fleshed out, the research begun, and a few key scenes sketched out, I have to write and write and write. The obstacle then becomes taking a break for such mundane things as eating or sleeping. Overcome? I’m getting better at planning out my writing projects.

Some writers put some of themselves into their characters. Do tell us how much of yourself you write into your characters.
Writing is a good time for pretending. I think I’m more like an actor during my story-telling. I can become anyone I want through interview and research. It wasn’t until my fourteenth novel that I really wrote a lot of myself into a character my age who was going through issues I hope I never have to face. It wasn’t easy.

Tell us the range of the kinds of books you enjoy reading.
That’s a pretty loaded question. It’s probably quicker to say what I don’t like – which is supernatural horror (although I’ve read two Stephen King books and saw two movies that weren’t quite so graphic), early twentieth-century novels, and generic bodice-rippers. I run the gamut from fantasy to westerns (big Zane Grey, Louis L’amour fan), to thrillers to pop fiction to sci-fi to literature to classics. I’m learning to read biographies and pick up stuff I’d never have considered due to belonging to a couple of book clubs.

What food or snack keeps the words flowing?
Pretzels and a pot of coffee. Preferably chocolate hazelnut.

What is your strangest habit?
I walk around asking people strange questions – like “if I ask you to touch my arm, how do you describe it?” and making a face to ask someone what that expression means to her. Probably the hardest thing for authors is coming up with new ways to say the same old thing. Other questions are: what does that taste like to you?
I also tend to read the end of the book when I’m part way through. I do not apologize.


What are some of the spiritual themes you like to write about?
I like to let my characters explore how the Lord works in their lives. Everyone experiences God in a way that’s meaningful and unique to him. Often folks don’t recognize that they’ve been touched by God, and I take great joy in pointing out that, yes, it’s just that simple! Forgiveness is usually woven throughout my novels.

What would be your dream vacation?
A couple of months to explore the British isles – all of them.

What new lessons is the Lord teaching you right now?
I wish it was new, but it’s the same one: “I know the plans I have for you…” Curb your impatience!

Do you have anything in the works now?
Always. I have four pieces still “out there”; one in the final stages of choice-making at a small publisher, and one that I’ll be meeting with the editor at Write to Publish next week. I have some family business (my youngest son’s wedding!!) soon, and I’m finishing a re-write, so I decided to wait to start something new for a few weeks. I have several series in the back of my head, clamoring to be chosen as the next project. I am also involved in serial radio theater direct to podcast and in pre-production for another live performance early next year.

You can keep up with Lisa on her website and her blog, Living Our Faith Outloud.

Thanks so much for joining us and don't forget to leave a comment for a chance at winning a copy of Lisa's books! They sound wonderful! :)

A Gift that Echoes

Well, here it is! My first Adding Zest post! We'd love to have you join us there!

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Why is it that all men get the same silly grin when the topic of sex comes up? Really! I wanna know! Maybe it's because they aren't embarrassed to admit they like sex! Oh, I heard that, girls! Truly I did! I heard a collective gasp when you read that!

But they do! And you know it!

Now, before you hyperventilate or die laughing on me, stop and think about things. God gave us each a very special man. He (that's the capital H He there!) gave us our man. God is good, and He gives good gifts, and our husbands are no exception to that rule!

And have you ever counted the times the Bible talks about sex? Lemme tell you, there was a lot of begatting going on! And let's not forget Solomon! That man collected wives like our men collected rocks when they were young!

Awhile ago I was clobbered with the overwhelming need I saw among Christian women in regard to the physical aspects of our marriages. What's right? What's wrong? What's going too far? And would somebody pleeeeeze talk about this?!

Well guess what? We're gonna! Yes, we're going to talk about sex. About loving our husbands and letting him really feel our love in a way he understands emotionally, and about meeting his physical needs. Joyfully meeting his physical needs, not just putting up with or enduring this special bond God has given married couples.

When God was creating this world, at the end of each day when He was looking at His creation, we read that He saw that it was good--until the sixth day. When God created man and woman and looked back on that day, then He saw that it was very good. (Emphasis mine.) So tell me, when you look in the mirror and see you and your husband, do you see something very good? What do you think your husband sees? (And I'm not talking about stretch marks and cottage cheese thighs.) Does he see a woman who loves him? Does he see his woman loving him or just putting up with him?

Loving our husbands as they need us to, in a way they understand it best, is a gift we can give them. And the cool thing is that when we give them that gift (remember, a true gift is freely and joyfully given) our whole family benefits from it. Even those little ones who have no idea what's going on, and those teens that catch us kissing in the kitchen and act like they're gagging. Let 'em gag! Inside they'll be happy to see their parents love each other.

Which gifts do you appreciate the most? Not necessarily the most expensive ones, or the prettiest ones, but definitely the ones that come from the heart. The ones that have had some thought put into them and that are given freely and joyfully. Remember the times you were given something with a grudging attitude—“Well, here. Just take it. It's for you.” It really took all the joy out of the gift, didn't it? Or how about a time when you were given something but you could tell the giver really expected to be paid or given something in return. Oh, now that makes me think of receiving a gift and being pleased with it, only to discover it wasn't just a gift—it was 'sweetening up' for the request. Hmmmm. Some people would think of that as a bribe. Those aren't gifts—not really.

A gift is given freely and joyfully, without thought of reciprocation. It's given just because. It's given as an expression of love or appreciation.


And when it comes to sex, our husbands love gifts. Gifts freely and joyfully given. They want us. They want our hearts and minds involved in making love, not just our body going through the motions.

Loving our husbands, as God intended us to, is a gift we give them that keeps on giving. It's a gift that echoes throughout our homes.

So tell me,
What are some things that keep us from feeling generous with our gift giving?


What are some benefits to giving freely and joyfully?


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Meet Lisa Lickel

SOOOO much has happened in the past week! Wow! First is my blog makeover--is it bright enough? LoL But even better than my happy colors is the Grand Opening of Adding Zest.

Today I'm also posting on Exemplify's blog about how an old barn is like a Christian...hehe, really, there IS a similarity!

And today here at Patterings I'd like to introduce you to author Lisa Lickel who has offered to giveaway not just her new release Healing Grace, but also her debut novel, The Gold Standard. So leave a comment (and your email addy to make it easier for me to track you down!!) to be entered into the book drawings. As always, the drawings will be open until Saturday evening and the winnerS will be posted on Sunday. :)

And now, here's Lisa...

Lisa Lickel is a graduate of the Christian Writer’s Guild apprentice course and belongs to American Christian Fiction Writers (Wisconsin contact), and the Moraine Writer’s Guild. She began writing full time in 2005 and is the author of numerous newspaper and magazine articles. She has written devotionals and radio theater pieces, as well as short stories and full length fiction. Her two novels to date are The Gold Standard, a cozy mystery from Barbour Books and Healing Grace, contemporary fiction, a story of love and sacrifice, from Zumaya Publishing. She is married to a high school science teacher and has two grown boys, a daughter-in-law and an almost daughter-in-law.

You can keep up with Lisa on her website and her blog, Living Our Faith Outloud.


Healing Grace: a novel
Grace Runyon could fix anyone -- until her husband developed cancer and she let him die. Believing no one would forgive her, Grace runs from the life she knew, hoping even God wouldn’t find her in a little out-of-the-way town in Michigan. It takes a very sick man and his little boy to help Grace face her past, accept who she is and battle her way back to redemption. Just when Ted and Grace begin to hope for the future, Ted relapses. Grace faces the ultimate choice once again: Trust God to work through her precious gift, or let a terminally ill man die. What if the price is more than she can pay?
**A recommended book club read
**Group question guide included


The Gold Standard
JUST HOW HIGH A PRICE DOES EARTHLY TREASURE COMMAND?
 
School teacher Judy Winters sets out to solve the mystery surrounding her only living relative’s murder back on the farm where Aunt Louise grew up. She encounters Hart Wingate, a young man renting the adjoining farm who had helped Aunt Louise with farm chores. When Judy learns that her boyfriend, Graham, has been secretly visiting Louise, Judy takes the opportunity to move away from him for the summer and think over the situation.
 
Judy loves her teaching job, but is intrigued by her heritage in the farmstead and particularly the old house. She stays on the farm and renovates the house, but whether to sell or stay, she has yet to decide.
 
Midnight visitors, a job offer, and new friends, along with one special old one—Carranza, the opinionated cat—all figure into Judy’s dilemma.
 
Meanwhile, Judy learns that a former friend of Louise’s father, Bryce, lost a treasure of gold somewhere on the farm. As Judy and Hart look for clues to the cause of Louise’s death and Bryce’s missing treasure they develop a close friendship. Judy decides to break off her relationship with Graham, who doesn’t take the news very well.
 
As Judy explores the house, she finds and follows clues in Louise’s mother’s diary to unearth the buried treasure. But was it the treasure that might have been behind Louise’s murder?

Healing Grace
Read an excerpt:


          Grace took a breath and stopped upon entering the little house. She heard the realtor drive away with a little zip and crunch on the gravel driveway and felt a moment’s panic.          “Not buyer’s remorse at this stage of the game, my good woman,” she scolded and forced herself to take deep regular breaths.                             

She set down the sacks she’d toted in from her green Subaru on the dusty braided rug. The truth of real estate agent’s comment before handing over the key became painfully obvious.                             

“The place hasn’t been opened up in a number of months. The last occupant was ill. It will need a little TLC.”                    

Grace, after her brief, cursory tour before signing the papers, had asserted she could clean it up herself. Maybe she’d been a little hasty.She could smell it in the air—sickness and neglect. Grace shivered and turned a slow one-eighty, squinting through the twirling motes. She could see cobwebs, and didn’t want to pull the dangerously lopsided curtains open for the showers of dust she knew would follow. They looked fragile, and she was pretty sure they would need to be tossed out, anyway.                      

She noticed the pile of toys and the weight bench in the corner near the open stairway.                        

Passing through the doorway on the far side of the long, narrow living room, she found the kitchen—the sad, neglected kitchen, definitely not the heart of this home.                         

“Who paints a kitchen puke green? And what’s up with the dancing hot peppers stencil?Honestly.”                         

She had painted her Tennessee kitchen a cheerful yellow and kept it spotless. Here, she wondered about bugs, and heard the rustling of mice in the cupboards. With a sigh, she began to pick up utensils from the kitchen table. Little bits of flotsam—napkin bits and nut shells of some kind—decorated the cracked and scorched ancient linoleum countertops.         

“God made trivets for a reason,” Grace said in exasperation.                          

She turned on the faucet, wiping away the attached spider webs. Warm orange gunk came out accompanied by gurgles and forceful interrupted spurts. The liquid spewed thickly around the stained sink. At least it didn’t smell bad. She cheered when it soon cleared up. Just call me easily pleased.         

The real estate woman had checked the lights to make sure the electric company had “turned her on.” Grace tried to chuckle. It came out like a zebra snort, a zebra that smelled lion and was trying to warn the herd.  
       
“You’ll be all right.” The plump, business-like agent had meant to reassure her. “It’s a ways out of town but not too far, and the neighbors are good people. In fact…” (as she looked down at the drive and stirred some gravel with her brown patent pump) “…ah, this used to belong to one of the brothers. The house is part of the original homestead. You’ll be okay.” 
        
She pressed a card into Grace’s limp hand. “Now, here’s my card. You just call…” Conveniently forgetting Grace had not yet applied to the local cooperative for telephone service, “…if something isn’t right.”   
      
Grace was tired of hearing about all the things she didn’t know so couldn’t bring herself to ask what the woman meant by “one of the brothers.” She figured she would find out in good time.  
       
It was a risk, settling down and opening a new bank account—a whole new life—in East Bay, Michigan. Grace wasn’t exactly hiding, but neither did she care to let anyone she left behind know where to find her, now that…   
      
She shook her head. No, there wasn’t anyone left who needed to know, who cared. She got out a pad of paper from her leather handbag and toured the little one-and-a half-story cottage making notes of the supplies she would need.  
      
Cleaning first, then fixing.  
       
Definitely painting. And figuring out some furniture. Something to sleep on. Do I even have a hammer? Talk about starting from scratch. 
        
By the third day and the fifth trip into town, Grace decided to treat herself. She had passed the cute little chalet-style building that housed the local library often enough without stopping in. She could take the time today. 
     
“An afterthought—you know—a whad’ya call it, mother-in-law’s cottage? Built on the edge of a big apple orchard,” Marie Richards, the town’s librarian, told Grace when she went to apply for a card. “The Marshalls, now, they did real well. Put this town on the map, you know. Keep us alive these days through the co-op.” 
       
Most of the trees had been torn out and not replanted, she continued. Gracewondered how much of the original land was left in the family and what had happened to the orchards. She nodded and smiled as if she understood. She would have to plan on doing a little research.         

Marie went on to tell her that the property edged East Bay, and was not actually within the village limits, but she would let Grace have a card, anyway.The local resale shop proved to be a blessing for filling in her wardrobe, and no one there said a thing when she went back three days in a row, modeling the former day’s purchase. Maybe she could get a sofa and some chairs there, some dishes. Service for one. 
        
Grace smiled humorlessly. They didn’t even have to match.
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Grace was so intent on cleaning she didn’t notice company coming until the pounding on the front door startled her. She let out a screech, nearly tumbling off the kitchen chair on which she had perched to brush cobwebs from the living room ceiling and walls with a broom. A peek through wavy glass at her visitors, revealed more than one—a delegation of two. 
        
One and a half, she amended as she pulled off the threadbare T-shirt covering her hair and opened the oak front door to a man and a small boy. “Good afternoon.”  
       
The man was very tall and terribly gaunt. He leaned on a crutch and stared at Grace with narrowed eyes, frowning as though he had not expected to see her. The black-haired little boy held a pillowcase with something lumpy inside in one hand and with the other held the man’s hand. She thought she recognized them from the other day at the bank when she went to sign the closing papers for the house. 
        
She had been surprised to find no one besides the real estate agent and the bank’s vice president at the meeting. The former owners had not been able to stay and meet her, but everything was in order, she had been told.



You can purchase The Gold Standard at Amazon.

And Healing Grace from HERE.

Tomorrow is a double header here at Patterings! I'll have an interview with Lisa AND my first Adding Zest post, so be sure to join us!

Don't forget to leave a comment for a chance at winning a copy of Lisa's books! They sound wonderful! :)

It's Today!!

You're invited to a Grand Opening!
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Because this is the introductory post and Heidi and I are both posting it, you'll have to go to Adding Zest to read Heidi's part, but here's mine as promised...

Hello there, you wonderful ladies! Patty here, and I'm excited about getting this going! God has been working and I'm amazed by what I see. What a great God we have! A couple months ago I was impressed with the need I saw amongst Christian women in the area of our physical relationships with our husbands. I have to admit—I pulled a Jonah and tried escaping the call I felt, but God didn't let go of me, and here I am. LoL. And I'm excited! God is so good!

Now, just so you know, I am NOT, sooooo not an authority on this subject!! I'm just a chick that's obeying God's call. My husband, Jim, and I have been married 20 years this summer and we have 5 homeschooled kids between 16 and almost 8.

While Heidi deals with more of the emotional and spiritual side of our sexuality, I'll be dealing with the practical, hands on stuff. I'll be relying heavily on your comments and input, so if there's questions you have, get them to us either through the comments or the email us button. I'll be covering many of the topics Heidi has listed above—starting with our attitude and thoughts, and loosening up so we can find more enjoyment in sex.

We'd really love to see this grow into a community of women connecting and encouraging and supporting each other. And having fun! Oh-my-goodness! I know there will be many laughs along the way. So please, join us! Join the conversations and join the fun. We'd love for you to tell your friends and please, grab a button!

Let's reclaim this ground that is so often used against us, and let's use it for God's glory!!

See you Wednesday!


Be sure to join us at Adding Zest to read what Heidi had to say!
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